Help them look as good as they are in front of others.
Most people don’t toot their own horn. Some because they don’t like to and some because they don’t know how. But they usually work hard, put a lot of energy into things and are emotionally committed to what they do. when you recognize this and toot their horn for them, they’ll appreciate it.
Please Note: I’m not talking about bullshitting people just to stoke their ego. I’m talking about really paying attention to how good people are and the work they are doing and recognizing it.
One of the best ways to do this is to recommend them to people who need them. Another way is to help them look good in front of their boss by show how successful a project is. Just pay attention to what it is they take pride in. When you seem something deserves a compliment or public recognition, offer it without hesitation of feeling corny. If it’s genuine, it will come across.
CALL TO ACTION:
- Look for opportunities to celebrate the successes around of people around you.
- Join LinkedIn.com and write honest letters of recommendations for people who have served you well.
- Find opportunities to help people look good in front of their bosses, employees, clients, spouses, kids, etc.